How To Tell If a Girl Likes You: 5 Easy ways

What are the ways on how to tell if a girl likes you? What are the signs (or the IOI’s as some call it)? Sometimes, we get a little flustered talking to women and figuring out what the hell they are thinking. Well, let me just inform you – figuring out if a girl likes you is not rocket science. It’s easier to get a read on women than you might think. Here are the signs to look out for:


This is the #1 sign on how to tell if a girl likes you. About 9 out of 10 times, if a girl is consistently touching you, then you should take note. The key word here is consistently. If she touches you once, then that doesn’t mean much. But, if she keeps grabbing your arm, slapping your hand*, or poking you every five minutes you can be sure you have her attracted. Then there is that 1 out of 10 situation where the girl is normally “touchy-feely.” If that’s the case then read below for more signs to tell if a girl likes you.


This is also a key factor on how to tell if a girl likes you. Her body language will say it all! Body language is subconscious, so you know if she shows the following signs, then she’s truly attracted:

• She holds strong eye contact with you
• She plays with her hair (big sign, or a nervous tick)
• She giggles a lot at your jokes
• She has flushed cheeks
• She leans in closer to you or doesn’t mind being close

Look for all these body language signs on how to tell if a girl likes you. One more important sign to look for is when you are in deep conversation. She may have her head resting on her hand and will appear as if she’s staring deeply at you. It’s similar to that googley-eyed schoolgirl stare that you’ve seen on television. Yes, it happens.


Another huge sign on how to tell if a girl likes you is if she shows interest in you. This comes through when she asks you personal questions. This means she wants to get to know you! A girl won’t waste her time at the bar or out during the day talking to you if she doesn’t want to. But, her interest will be conveyed through questions that she wants answers to. What do you do? What do you like to do for fun? What’s your favorite restaurant? It’s questions like that which will prove to you that she’s interested in who you are as a person.


A lot of men can’t decipher subtle clues that prove that she wants to see you again. Pay attention! If this happens it’s a sure way to tell if a girl likes you. If you reach a deep comfort level and show her how awesome you are, then there’s a chance she’ll throw it all on the table. Statements like “we should totally do that some time!” after you mention a fun activity or similarly, “I’ve never done that before, but always wanted too!” This is her way of getting you to ask her on a date.


If a girl is trying to get in touch with you (and you didn’t meet her at a business/networking event) then you can be sure she is into you. Her making an effort to contact you is a solid way to tell if a girl likes you. It doesn’t get any easier than that fellas. She is the one making the move and all you have to do is go along with it. As a side note, make sure to still take the lead in your interactions, even if she contacts you first. Don’t wait for her to make the plans. Instead, take the contact as a hint and plan a date!

Memorize and learn all these ways to tell if a girl likes you. Getting to know these signs will help you figure out what’s going on in your exchanges. They are simple. All you have to do is make sure that you’re paying attention. When you get the hints, take action and make your move.

*I don’t mean she literally grabs your hand and slaps it (although she might). But if you two are sitting down together or leaning against a bar, she may react in conversation by lightly slapping your hand or arm. This is one of the easiest ways a girl can display her flirting and affection because it would be awkward to touch you in other places. This happens a lot when you have strong chemistry with a girl, so be on the look out.

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11 Comments for How To Tell If a Girl Likes You: 5 Easy ways

  1. Freechick
    July 25, 2012 at 7:55 pm

    Nice post. I blogged about this a few months ago and I agree with it for the most part. But not all of us play by the rules!

    • Tripp
      July 25, 2012 at 11:08 pm

      What’s the link Freechick? Would love to read it!

  2. Socialkenny
    August 1, 2012 at 10:38 pm

    I thought I’d commented on this the other day.

    Anyway,those are all surefire way to tell if she’s digging you.

    Ok,I’m gonna play devil’s advocate,no if the target(the girl)doesn’t display some of the 5 signs you listed,does that mean she’s not into you?

    • Tripp
      August 1, 2012 at 10:53 pm

      That’s a great question man. No it doesn’t mean she doesn’t like you. Not every woman will be obvious. For the ones that aren’t obvious you still need to persist, get their number, and try and take them out. The last sign, I will say here, is that she abides to your every request. That’s how you know she’s into you if she doesn’t show those signs. She will say yes to a date. She won’t stop your physical advances. She continues to want to see you.

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  6. Divine
    June 14, 2013 at 11:08 am

    Why the f*** does everything have to be in code? B****, just say you like him.

  7. Crystal R.
    July 30, 2013 at 3:21 am

    I’m actually a girl (i’m straight), and he’s right about these tips. If you pay attention, stay calm and confident..She will give you some signs. Believe me the signs will be quite obvious.

  8. Akinwale
    September 9, 2013 at 10:50 am

    U d man!!

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