Instead, I didn’t. Why? Because I just didn’t know how.
1. Not Talking To Enough Girls
2. Going To The Same Bars
3. Joining A Fraternity
The college that I went to was divided into two sections: greek life and G.D.I. (god damn independent). Since the school was heavily greek, there wasn’t a lot of socializing with people who weren’t greek, if you happened to be in a frat and sorority. Okay, no big deal, right? Wrong.
Sticking to one social side of the campus didn’t allow me to expand into other areas. I found it too “difficult” to meet other people not involved in Greek life and it massively stinted my opportunities for meeting new women.
If I wasn’t so set on just attending fraternity and sorority parties I could have opened myself up to a whole new group of people.
4. Drinking & Partying Too Much
If I had applied that same mentality during college, I would have been more successful with the girls there and felt way better in the morning.
5. Not Getting A Job At A Restaurant/Bar/Nightclub
Talk about a killer place to meet hot girls and have some serious social power.
I will admit, I was one of the lucky ones that didn’t have to work in college. However, I was still broke and didn’t have much money to spend.
But, getting a job (really any job) would have been yet another avenue to meet more girls. And when you work at a restaurant or bar there is an “industry scene” that you can be part of that is built right into your work. People in this scene go out all the time, hook up with each other and become friends. Unfortunately, I didn’t learn this until I was a senior in high school and it was too late at this point.
If you can muster up the time to work at a bar, you have the opportunity to have a higher status on campus. My friends who were doormen and bartenders knew so many people because you become a leader in the social scene (just by having the job!)
6. Not Making More Friends In My Classes
When I did attend class, I kept to myself. I didn’t try to meet any new girls or make other guy friends.
Class is an EASY way to meet new and interesting people. And it’s important that you take advantage of that.
It’s as simple as going up to a girl after class and asking, “Hey you’re in my class right? What did you think of [fill in something about class here].”
7. Getting A Girlfriend Too Quickly
8. Not Talking To The Women I Was Attracted To
They want a man who can approach them and talk to them (dominant), create sexual chemistry (tension) and have a good time doing it (entertainment).
So, instead, I settled for girls that landed in my lap (no pun intended) and trust me they weren’t very high quality girls.
9. Not Wearing A Condom
10. Getting Jealous
“What did they have that I didn’t?” I would constantly ask myself.
I didn’t realize how much of a waste of time it is to look at others and compare yourself. Jealousy won’t get you anywhere except into a small depression. Instead, I should have focused on myself and taken the action steps necessary to get better with women.
There will always be people ahead of you, however it’s best to use that as inspiration for what’s possible instead of coming down on yourself.
Break out of your shell and socialize with everyone and create healthy habits for your future.
College is one of the easiest places to meet girls, because they are everywhere and they are OPEN to meeting new people. The college vibe is more relaxed and lends itself to socializing.
If you can turn these mistakes around and use them for your benefit, I assure you, you will be meeting more girls, getting better grades, and feeling extremely productive in these amazing 4 years of your life.
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