How To Attract A Girl On A First Date

I want to share with you something a little bit different.

Usually, I write a blog post full of tips and techniques that you get to read, learn from and apply.

Today, I have a highly valuable audio recording of a coaching session that I just did with a student. He gave me permission to share it with you because he was blown away by the value of it.

In this coaching session, my student tells me that he has a first date lined up with a beautiful girl and he doesn’t want to blow it. And who does right?

Well during the call, I go over every step of how to succeed on a first date, from texting her to saying goodbye and everything in between.

You are going to learn exactly what to do on a date to get a girl super attracted to you and wanting to see you again.

There’s a bunch of powerful techniques in here that are going to make you way more interesting and attractive on your next date!

  • Nice format. Always good to get information in different ways. I agree that getting drinks is better than dinner for a first date because it sets the right mood. I always sit next to a girl regardless of where we are so I can touch her easily.

    • Tripp

      Thanks Will! That’s a great idea.

    • Thank you for the insightful contribution Will!

  • Tim Hisey

    I like the idea of going out for drinks on the first date but what if you don’t drink? I don’t drink alcohol, should I still meet her at the bar?

    • You can meet there and have a non-alcoholic beverage or you can meet her somewhere for coffee or somewhere else that doesn’t serve alcohol. Your options are limitless when you take the time to think about it.

  • George Kassim

    i learned a lot the emotional way of telling a story…. I am not much of an emotional guy..

    • Glad to hear you learned a lot. Now go and practice to make it a natural skill. Good luck George.

  • Londiny Belizaire

    Hello from Spain, what about if I met her at a party, had a date in a park but there was no action or touching. Althought we laughed a lot I’m not sure if she’s attracted to me. But we are having a second date in a more intimate place, should I go for a kiss o touch her “that way” ?
    We don’t text too much because I don’t want to annoy her. I’m not used to metting after the party.
    I have to pay for an answer ?

    • Hello Londiny. You’ll probably want to wait until you know that she’s attracted to you before going in for a kiss or touching her. I have videos teaching how to tell. Feel free to watch them. Good luck.

      • Londiny Belizaire

        Thank you sir

  • Renato Chacón

    Hello From Mexico, Three days ago a friend introduced me to a friend of his girlfriend, we have been talking through messages and I intend to do as a double date, and another thing she lives in another state where I live, what should I do?

    • Renato Chacón

      And P.S. any advice about how should i communicate through messages

      • Check out my playlist on youtube called “How to text girls”.

    • What should you do about what? You told me your situation and what you intend to do, so do it. Apply what I teach everyday about making yourself attractive and leading the interaction and when you have a challenge then come back for more answers.

  • Daniel B

    Hey Tripp, I’m Daniel from Colombia, first I gotta thank you because when I broke up with the girl I was with since highschool I didn’t really know how to talk to girls, now I met this girl and got her number, asked her out and she said yes, we went out, had fun, laughed a lot, but when I went for the kiss she didn’t want it. What should I do next? ask her out again?
    Thank you in advance

    • Daniel, if you like her, sure you can ask her out again. Why not? Just because she didn’t want to kiss you on a first date? All girls are different. Just because she didn’t kiss you when you went for it, doesn’t necessarily mean she isn’t interested in you. Maybe she likes to go slow, maybe she wasn’t feeling it, maybe it wasn’t the right time. Who knows? Don’t over think it and try to go at her pace.

  • Ayush Sharma

    Hey, i am a school boy 17 yrs old… I am Indian… I have a crush on a girl but i she sometimes shows interest in me but sometimes just ignores me… Can u please tell me what so i do???… Plss…

  • android gamin

    we r still in the friend zone so pls i need more tips on being attractive and interesting

    • More tips being shared everyday.

  • John

    Hey Tripp there is this girl that I met on POF she is 3 years older than me and I managed to get her number , we started texting back and forth, and we actually planned a date for this weekend, but since Friday I get this feeling that she is less interested, I mean she replies but it is not natural. I just wanna text her today, but I have no idea what I should text her so that she feels happy to reply. I feel like only one text can change this whole negative vibe.

  • bilal

    hey tripp it bill from Virginia theres this girl who first said she wanted to be friends but I worked up to her facetimiing me latenight and agreed to go to the movies with me horror movie she said she wanted to watch so my friend told me she usually gives a blow job to who she dates so when I asked her she said she was tryna stop the hoe stuff so when I said we can be together she said maybe I’m taking her to the movies on Tuesday but it seems sometimes she gets idk if its creeped or borded but when I say like gooey love stuff she says I said maybe or hmmk I asked for nudes the other day she said she don’t like sending them and then she said its better to see it real life so I said ooh ok I see you she said I’m just sayin that was a maybe and after th movies I atleast want a blowjob or a kiss but I don’t really know how toget her in that mood please its on Tuesday ireally need your help its gotten to the point where I’m looking at horoscopes and love horoscopes I feel stupid I neeed help in how toget her to like it when she text me or heat up the conversation without gettingat the point where she stops it I want her to like it and be interested when she talks to me and I want to make that tension and know what to say because most times I mess up the mood by what I saywere going to the mall on Tuesday so I need all of your help to get her love me on tueday please I need your help its the closest ive gotten to having a hot girl I like so please I’m in 9th grade so is she I need your help I’m begging

    • My young friend, you have a lot of growing up to do. Do that first and then we’ll talk. Good luck.

    • Jay Stump

      You should be begging because you definitely need help. Have you ever watched the movie Hitch?

  • Shrikant

    Hey Tripp from india..a girl always smile when she look at me..I like her. But how I confirm that she also likes me. She is just 19 a school girl and I’m 23

    • By her eye contact, body language and the things she says to you. I have videos on my Youtube channel that go more in depth on each of these. Good luck.

  • Raj

    This is raj from India! !! Am planning to take hooked program by paying 62 dollor .. is this certificate course!!!!!

    2nd doubt . After paying fee will you provide me any material’s and video ….

  • Raj

    I would like to take certificate course .. kindly let kn fee and etc

  • Big Ross

    hey trip, i like a girl . i took her out once , we both enjoyed it , she was open with me. She actively chat with me , but whenever i try to ask her out again she always flakes out. what should i do now?

    • Give her some space to breathe. Girls don’t like it when you pressure them to see you again.