One of the most common questions I get from men is this…
“Tripp. How can I attract a high quality woman?”
And the answer I usually give is this…
“By becoming a more interesting man.”
Today, I’m going to give you 10 ways to make yourself a more interesting man. Use this as a reference you come back to you want to work on building a more attractive lifestyle.
If you follow just a few of these ideas, I guarantee you’ll become much more interesting and attractive to women – especially the high quality ones.
1. Learn How To Cook Your Favorite Dish
Women find men who cook extremely sexy because they are few and far between.
It takes a lot of time to be a good cook in general, and it doesn’t take a lot of time to master one dish. Think of your favorite food in the world. Is it steak? Pasta? Sushi? Whatever your favorite dish is, I want you to dive in and learn how to make it in the most delicious way possible.
Really go for it too. How can you make it fancier? Can you add certain spices you wouldn’t normally use? Can you add a crust to the steak? Can you use homemade pasta for your Italian dish? I want to help you out and recommend a book called The Food Lab.
This book will teach you how to craft the best version of almost any type of dish and will help you master your one meal.
2. Travel To A Continent You’ve Never Been To
A man that has been across the world has many interesting stories to tell. These are stories that you can share with any girl you meet.
Why do I say continent? Because I want to jolt your existence.
Traveling far outside of your regular environment will take you through adventures and transform you into a different person. Anyone who has ever traveled far (myself included) has learned a lot about themselves.
You change. You start to see the world differently. You appreciate the small things in life. For many people, it can be totally life changing.
It’s these thoughts, lessons and ideas that you’ll gain from your travels that will make you into a more interesting man to the girls you talk to.
3. Take A Salsa Dance Class
If you can dance, your sexiness meter goes up at least 5 notches. When women see a man that can dance, they automatically assume that he’s good in bed. Why? Because there’s a lot of intimate movements in dancing, especially in salsa.
Salsa dancing is a very popular type of dancing. When you can salsa, you can use it at dance clubs, teach a woman you’re dating how to do it, and even meet new women from your salsa class.
With the power of salsa, your options will be endless. And when a woman knows that you can move your body, she will want to move hers alongside yours.
4. Be Well Informed On Current Events
Keeping up to date on current events, politics, sports, science, culture, and technology is important for holding meaningful conversations with girls.
When you’re always in the know, whenever somebody brings up a topic, you can easily chime in and share your thoughts and opinions. Read the news and popular blogs to stay up to date on the important stuff going on in the world.
One of the best sites to do this is The Week. This website will give you a super quick breakdown of what’s going on in the world and keep you in the know.
When you take 5 minutes to check out that site everyday, you’ll have an arsenal of interesting things to talk about with people that you meet. And you’ll be able to hold conversations with girls and never run out of things to say.
5. Wear One Piece Of Artistic Expression
This idea can come in many forms. The way you present yourself can say a lot of interesting things about you.
Do you have any tattoos? Do you wear glasses you bought from Europe? Are you always sporting the latest fashion trends?
Expressing yourself in a unique way will attract women to you because you stand out from the crowd. And it makes you a more interesting person because there’s always going to be a story behind the way you’re expressing yourself.
For example, below is one of my favorite necklaces made out of mala beads. Not many guys wear this piece and girls always ask me about it; what it is, where I got it, and the story that goes with it.
Some other ideas are: tattoos, hats, glasses, jackets, shirts, pants, rings, jewelry, shoes or piercings. Take some time to do a little bit of research and try on what feels right to you.
6. Go On A Local Adventure
We already talked about travel. But what about doing something interesting where you live right now?
No matter where you’re from, I’m willing to bet that there is a special event you haven’t been to or an area of interest that you haven’t explored yet.
Become a tourist in your own city and find something in your town that you find interesting and have never done before. Every major city has nearly endless options of culture, entertainment and events. Pick one and go for it.
Happen to live in a small town? Take a short drive to the next neighboring town and explore the unknown.
Listen, there are no rules here! My job here is to inspire you to do something different, to go on more adventures and to get out of your usual routine.
That’s what makes a man truly interesting to women. The excitement in trying new and different things.
7. Take An Art Class
Art comes in many different forms: painting, photography, music, drawing, building, crafting and much more.
If you can take on just one of the aforementioned as a hobby, you will already stand out among the rest of the men out there who just sit around and watch TV all day.
Branch out and create a new project for yourself.
Pick up a new instrument and play the songs you like to hear. Buy a camera and learn photography. Learn how to build a piece of furniture. Take singing lessons. Take a metalworking class. Learn how to make kombucha. Take a glassblowing class.
Want more options? Check out this page that contains almost every type of hobby you can think of:
8. Ask A Girl A “Unique” Question
One day, a girl told me I was interesting. And this confused me because we were only talking for about an hour and I didn’t say a thing about myself! I even called her out on it.
I asked her, “How is that possible? You don’t even know a thing about me.” She laughed and realized I was right.
But I prodded because I wanted to know exactly what made her feel that way. Finally, she said “Because you ask really unique questions”.
One thing that can make a person interesting is the way they listen and get to know someone. If you know how to ask powerful questions that challenge a girl or make her think in a new way, she will think the conversation is interesting and project that on to you!
So when you’re getting to know a girl, don’t bother with asking the same old questions that every other guy asks her like “What do you do for a living? Where are you from?” etc. You’ll get to those eventually.
Instead, ask interesting questions like “If you could be anywhere right now where would it be?” or “When was the last time you laughed so hard you almost peed?” People love answering those type of questions.
When she tells you about something she loves to do, ask her “What’s that like?”
Try and get her to answer from her emotional side rather than her logical side. When you can get a girl to express her feelings about a certain subject, she will have a visceral reaction in the moment that you’re having with her.
And that’s pretty powerful stuff, man.
9. Read A Self-Improvement Book
Now, I’m a little biased because I teach and coach in the area of personal development. However, reading a book about becoming a better person will help you grow and turn you into a more interesting human being.
One example is the highly popular book “How To Win Friends & Influence People” by Dale Carnegie. This book is packed with interesting tidbits of information and nuggets of wisdom. The more you learn, the more interesting you and your conversations will become.
And not only will you learn and benefit from this, but you can go on and share your new found wisdom with others. Teaching and sharing this type of information will make you a much more interesting and compelling person to talk to.
Reading the latest headlines from the news is a good start, but let’s get you diving into new topics that pique your interest. If you don’t know where to start then grab Dale Carnegie’s book. I promise, you will enjoy it because it talks about concepts similar to what I’m talking about right now.
10. Be A “Yes” Man
The over arching theme I’m speaking about here is to simply “do stuff”.
An interesting person has a well rounded character, has had many experiences throughout their life and can share information through their stories. Everything in this post will help you do that.
The best advice I can give you is to say “yes” to as many new experiences as you can. When you say “yes” you offer yourself a whole new experience and an opportunity to add to your life story.
Get off your couch. Do more. Explore. Go places. Experience life. You only have one.
Now go live it.
You don’t need to do everything on this list to be more interesting. There’s a lot here and if you try to do them all, you’ll probably get overwhelmed.
My advice for you is to pick just a few at a time and start changing your lifestyle. If you can knock out more than half of this list, then you’re well on your way.
The whole point is this, to stand out from all the average guys who don’t have the desire nor the motivation to work hard and become somebody awesome and different.
When you make yourself more interesting to women, you will live a more fulfilled life. This list will get you started.